Share Your Top Three Successes

It’s Saturday, so that means it’s success sharing time.  In other words, how did you succeed this week? 

Here’s the cool part—you get to choose what counts as a success for you. 

If you’re still not sure what success looks like for you, ask yourself this question:  what did you do this week that helped you build your confidence or take a step closer to your dreams?

For instance, I started the official rough draft of my second novel, improved the way I communicate with you on this blog by coming up with specific topics for each day of the week and outlined a ‘confidence building crash course’ to help you use the confidence building formula to supercharge your self-confidence.

Okay…it’s your turn.  Please leave a comment and share your top three successes now.

To your dreams,
Bonnie Jean

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Got Questions?

As you can tell from the posts over the last three days, I’ve got a writing dream, a sports dream and a business dream.

I’m doing something about all of those dreams right now.  Which is why I’ll be sharing my progress with you along the way.  My goal is to be your coach so you can learn how to find a way to DO what you DREAM, too.

Speaking of your dreams, what is it you want?

Who do you want to be?

What do you want to do?

What do you want to have?

Why?

And what questions do you have about gaining confidence?  Chasing your dreams?  Being successful?

Please leave your questions in the comment section below.  I promise to answer any question you ask to the best of my knowledge and ability.  (I may even highlight your question in a future Friday post!)

To your dreams,
Bonnie Jean

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Got a Business Dream?

Ever wanted to be an entrepreneur and make money by starting your own business? 

Then you’ll want to pay special attention to the Thursday posts.  This is where I’ll be sharing what I’m doing to reach my business goals, show you how to start and succeed in your own business and teach you important money management tips.

By the way, you can be a kid and an entrepreneur at the same time.  Want proof?  Then check out this cool site to meet all kinds of kids who have started all kinds of successful businesses.

So…what kind of business do you want to start?

To your dreams,
Bonnie Jean

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Got a Sports Dream?

When I was a kid, I LOVED playing sports in gym class, my backyard or on an official team.

In high school, I had fun playing three different sports (volleyball, basketball and softball) all four years.  Then I played softball in college.

After my college career ended, I discovered a new sport:  running!  Which is weird.  Because although I always had a dream of being able to run a marathon, I didn’t believe I could.  I didn’t believe I was a real runner.

Runners ran in extreme weather conditions; I ran only in bearable temperatures. Runners were fast; I was slow. Runners had runner friends; I ran alone. Runners ran in races; I ran to stay in shape. For me, a marathon seemed impossible.

Then at the end of a run one hot July afternoon, I decided I was going to do something about my dream of being a runner.  I didn’t have to be a great runner.  I just wanted to finished a marathon.  I wanted to challenge myself to achieve a dream.

I ran my first marathon four months later.  Since then, I’ve completed a handful of 5k’s, 10k’s, a half-marathon and three other marathons.

Now I have another running dream:  run a six-minute mile.  I don’t know if I’m capable of achieving that goal or not, but I’m sure going to try.

That’s the sports dream I’m chasing this year.  If you have a sports dream you’re chasing, then we should be able to help each other out. 

Every Wednesday, I’ll share what I’m doing to stay fit and achieve my goal.  I’ll also share some ‘mental game’ tips and strategies that you can put to work for you to become a CHAMPION in whatever sport you play.

What sport do you play?  What’s your sports dream?  Please leave a comment and let me know!

To your dreams,
Bonnie Jean

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Got a Writing Dream?

I had a writing dream when I was a kid. I wanted to be a writer because I loved making up characters and stories. But instead of telling anyone about my dream and writing my stories, I acted them out in the privacy of my own imagination.

Anytime I was alone, I had a blast pretending I was a character in one of my stories. That was my idea of FUN, especially since my characters lived exciting, adventurous, action-packed lives.

The only problem was that I didn’t have the confidence or courage I needed to admit to anyone I wanted to be a writer. After all, who was I to think I could write something others would enjoy reading? I was just me–quiet, shy, strange little me.

Some things, though, were too good not to write down. Only I hid everything I wrote. I didn’t want anyone to think I thought I was a writer. I was just me–quiet, shy, strange little me–not somebody important enough to be a writer.

I didn’t chase my dream back then because I didn’t think I was allowed to be a writer. I thought someone had to give me permission to be who I wanted to be and do what I wanted to do. I thought I had to wait until I was all grown up to even think about living my dreams.

I was totally, completely, 100% WRONG.

No matter how old you are, if you want to be a writer, all you have to do is START WRITING!

To prove it, I’m going to start writing my second novel today. And I’m going to invite you along for the whole novel writing journey.

Every Tuesday, I’ll update you on my book writing progress and share my writing tips, secrets and strategies with you. That way you can write your own story alongside me and start living your writing dream NOW.

For instance, here are the tools I use to write a novel:

  • A computer (for typing)
  • A pen (for writing in my notebook and on index cards)
  • A notebook (for brainstorming story, character and setting ideas)
  • Colored index cards (for summarizing each scene)
  • My unique imagination (for making stuff up)

And here’s how I use my tools:

  • First, I use my imagination to make up characters and picture where they go, what they do and what they say.
  • Second, I use the index cards to summarize where I see them going, what I see them doing and what I hear them saying.
  • Finally, I’ll use my notebook or computer to write the details. (Sometimes I feel like writing the story in my notebook and sometimes I feel like just typing it on the computer.)

I’ll imagine a few scenes worth of action, summarize on the index cards what I see in my mind and write out the details in story format.  Then I just keep repeating the process until the story I want to tell is over.

That’s my writing system. What’s yours?

To your dreams,
Bonnie Jean

P.S. Here’s another tip: let yourself write a really, really, really bad first draft (which is what I’m doing with the draft I’m starting today). You can always go back and make it better, but it’s way too easy to get stuck and not write anything if you’re trying to write a great first draft. Letting yourself write badly takes the pressure off and makes writing more fun.

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