Feb 19

Did you know that your life is your choice?

So what do you choose to do with your life? Who do you want to be? What do you want to do? Where do you want to go?

What if you could live with unshakable confidence in yourself? How would you feel? What would you be confident about? What if you were confident about your school work? The sports you play? The hobbies you have? What if you believed in yourself enough to always walk into the cafeteria with your head held high, never wondering what other kids were thinking about you? What if you believed in yourself enough to speak in front of people, to see how valuable you are as a person, to try anything you set your mind to? What does your life feel like when you live with unshakable confidence?

Now can you imagine having the power to dream up unbreakable dreams? How do you feel when you have the confidence to set goals and chase those goals knowing you have what it takes to make your dreams happen? What would you have the courage to try? What actions would you take everyday knowing your dreams are unbreakable? What does your life feel like now when you unshakable and unbreakable?

Can you add the final piece of the puzzle: unstoppable success?  How much more confident do you become when no obstacle stands in your way?  What goals do you achieve?  How does it feel to get what you want?  Be yourself?  Be trustworthy?  Be passionate?  Be focused? Be involved?  How does it feel to always find a way to do what you dream?   What do you have? What results do you get? What thoughts do you think? What beliefs do you believe? What feelings do you feel? What words do you say? What actions do you take?

Ready to put the whole picture together?

You feel secure in who you are. You believe you are valuable and special. You believe you are worth being around. You believe you can make your own choices, choose your own future, control your own life. You still respect your parents, teachers and friends, but you also respect yourself enough to stand up for yourself, to do what is right over what is easy or popular, to say what you mean, to be honest, to be strong.

You set goals and achieve them. You enjoy the results. You get the best grades you are capable of getting. You excel in your activities. You always give your best and you find that one thing you’re better at than everyone else around. You find a way to shine, you find friends to belong with, you are you through and through.

That’s what your life looks like when you are an Unshakable, Unbreakable, Unstoppable Dream Doer. That what your life feels like when you always find a way to do what you dream.

But how do you get there? How do you find your unshakable confidence? How do you dream up unbreakable dreams? How do you live with unstoppable success?

Stay tuned because the answers are coming…

To your dreams,
Bonnie Jean

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Feb 15

You ever wonder what confidence is?

Well, I was wondering that exact same thing today, so I went and looked up the definition of confidence in the dictionary. This is what I found:

  1. Full trust; belief in the powers, trustworthiness, or reliability of a person or thing
  2. Belief in oneself and one’s powers or abilities
  3. Trust or faith in a person or thing
  4. A feeling of assurance, especially self-assurance
  5. The state or quality of being certain

In other words, confidence is a feeling you get when you learn to trust and believe in yourself.

But how do you learn how to trust and believe in yourself?

Is that something you can buy, get or take from other people?

NO!

Confidence is something you have to build on your own, and the only way to build confidence in yourself is to TAKE ACTION!

If you want to gain confidence in your ability to play a sport, you have to actually practice that sport.

If you want to gain confidence in your ability to sing, you have to actually practice singing.

If you want to gain confidence in your ability to make money, you have to actually do the work it takes to make money.

Of course taking action and DOING these things that you want to do when you don’t have any confidence in your ability to do them well is tough.

The weird and wacky truth, however, is that if you’re willing to first be really bad at something and keep practicing even when you don’t believe in yourself, you’ll soon gain UNSHAKABLE self-confidence.

By just taking action toward your dreams, you’ll learn how to trust and believe in yourself.

Personally, I want to build confidence in my ability to write novels, so I’m going to go practice my writing.

What about you? What action can you take RIGHT NOW to help you build your self-confidence?

Great. Now go DO it!

To your dreams,
Bonnie Jean

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Feb 01

Want to be yourself?

Find where you belong?

Feel in control of your own life?

Choose your own future?

Live your dreams NOW?

Well…it all starts with a little thing called CONFIDENCE. 

To gain confidence fast, all you have to do is watch this FREE video and put this super simple confidence building formula to work for you.

In the Video You’ll Learn…

  • Why Building Confidence is the Secret to Your Success
  • What Simple Formula to Follow to Become a Confident Champion
  • How to Put the Confidence Building Formula to Work for You
  • What You Can Do TODAY to Start Gaining Confidence Fast
  • How You Can Always Find a Way to DO What You DREAM

For INSTANT access, just fill out the form to the right.  (Or visit ChildrenIntoChampions.com, watch a fun preview video, then fill out the form on that page!)

Enjoy!

To your dreams,
Bonnie Jean

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Nov 20

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http://www.ChildrenIntoChampions.com

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Nov 09

It’s Find a Way to Do What You Dream Day!

Finding a way to do what you dream starts with you being a person of great character. Being a person of great character involves being trustworthy, being passionate and being focused.

To be trustworthy, passionate and focused, you must develop 12 core ‘champion’ traits. Last week, we talked about unleashing your creativity.

Today, we’re going to talk about the fourth characteristic that comes from the heart and sets Champion Dream Doers apart from Normalites: COURAGE.

Why should you advance with courage?

You should be courageous because it takes courage to live your dreams.

You can be passionate and enthusiastic and creative, but if you don’t take that last step and advance toward your dreams with courage, you’ll always be too scared to break through your comfort zones and do what you dream.

What is courage?

Courage is taking bold action in spite of fear. That means that you move forward toward your dreams even when you’re scared. You recognize your fear, face it and deal with it instead of hiding from it and waiting for that fear to go away before you take any action.

In a nutshell, courage is faith. Without faith, fear wins. You have to believe that the next step you take—no matter how painful, difficult or challenging you think that step will be—you have to believe that step will give you the results you want: living your dreams.

And it’s always easier to be courageous when you’ve unleashed your creativity, which is why we talked about your creativity last week.

How can you advance toward your dreams with courage?

To help you advance with courage, follow these steps:

  1. Write down one dream you feel the most passionate about.
  2. Finish this sentence: I feel scared or nervous when I think about living this dream because ______________________.
  3. Answer this question: why should I chase this dream even though I’m scared or nervous? Then take the action that scares you!

What can you do NOW to be courageous?

Practice being courageous by doing something right now that makes you feel uncomfortable or scared or nervous. For instance, if you’re not used to telling your friends or family about your dreams, face that fear and tell them anyway!

The more you practice being courageous with simple things, the easier it will become to be courageous with bigger things, like taking action that helps you live your dreams instead of just keeping your dreams in your head.

Then next week, we’ll begin to discuss the traits you need to develop that help you become mentally tough. We’ll start with the first part of Dream Doer Rule #4: clarify your FOCUS.

Until next time, remember that you always find a way to do what you dream when you stick to your strengths.

To Your Dreams,
Bonnie Jean

P.S. Have you signed up for your FREE audio novel yet and your FREE 14-day Dream Doer Crash Course? If not, CLICK HERE now!

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