Mar 02

Yup.  That’s right.  I stand by my post title.  You totally, absolutely, 100% CANNOT do what you dream…unless you follow Dream Doer Rule #1:  Be Yourself.

Being yourself means you’re free to choose how you think, how you feel, what you say and what you do instead of relying on other people to create your identity for you.

Being yourself also means that you stick to your strengths when chasing your dreams.  Of course you first have to know what your strengths are in order to stick to them.

The kind of strengths I’m talking about here are your God-given talents, skills you are naturally good at and love to do.

Need help identifying your talents? 

Then you should prepare yourself to accept the BE YOURSELF Dream Doer Challenge of the day.

Are you prepared? 

Excellent. 

I now challenge you to answer this question: 

  • What is the BEST success you’ve had in your life so far?

(Was it getting a good grade? Winning a competition? Helping a friend?)

(What is one thing you’ve done that made you feel great?)

Write your answer down…because recognizing your own success is the first step to finding your unshakable confidence, chasing your unbreakable dreams and living with unstoppable success.

To your dreams,
Bonnie Jean

P.S.  Don’t keep your BEST success to yourself!  Share it with me by adding a comment!

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Mar 01

If you want unshakable confidence, unbreakable dreams and unstoppable success…

If you want to always find a way to DO what you DREAM…

Then you need to follow the five Cool Dream Doer Rules.

Because these rules are so important to making your dreams come true, we’ll focus on one of the rules each week. I’ll introduce the rule to you on Monday, then give you action challenges Tuesdays-Fridays so you know how to put the information to work for you. Then on Saturdays we’ll wrap things up and assess our progress or “Champion Dream Doer” status.

At the end of every five weeks, we’ll start over. But each week we’ll learn something new about the rule and a new way to apply the rule to your life.

So here we go with Cool Dream Doer Rule #1: BE YOURSELF: Use your God-given talents to pursue your dreams.

This rule sounds pretty easy, but when you think about it, it’s actually kind of tough.

What if you don’t know who “yourself” is?

What if you’ve been too busy trying to fit in with your friends that you haven’t taken the time to figure out how to fit in with you?

What if you’re afraid that who you are is someone completely different than who your friends and family expect you to be?

What if you don’t know what your talents are?

What if you aren’t sure what dreams you want to pursue?

So in order to follow this rule, you have to figure you who YOU are, what YOU are great at and what YOU want.

Not who anyone else tells you to be.

Not who anyone else wants you to be.

But who YOU are.

Whew.  That’s a lot to figure out. 

So how do you do that?

Where do you start?

In all honesty, there’s not one right way to figure out who you are or one right place to start. So I’ll just pick a beginning, we’ll start small and we’ll go from there.

To help you figure out what your talents are, I’m going to write three sentences but leave a blank in each. You just finish the sentence with the first things that comes to mind.

Ready? Good…here we go!

  1. When I do ___________, I feel confident.
  2. The thing I most enjoy doing is ______________.
  3. If I didn’t have to go to school, I would want to spend my time doing ____________ instead.

We’re just getting started here, so tune in tomorrow for more ‘Be Yourself’ exercises. If you follow through with the exercises, you’ll know more about who you are and what you want by the end of this week.

Exciting, huh?

To your dreams,
Bonnie Jean

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Feb 24

Hey Athletes:

As an athlete, you know how important practice is. Without practice, you’d never be ready to compete at your very best during game time. That’s why I spent four months practicing for my first marathon by running mile after mile after mile.

Even after all that practice, though, I was still scared I wouldn’t be able to finish the marathon on race day because I had never competed in any kind of race before. (Last week I told you about the scary nightmares I had for several nights before the race.)

So when it came time to step up to the starting line the morning of the race, I was still scared. Strangely enough, however, that fear slowly went away as I started actually running the marathon.

My parents waved me on at mile two and mile four. I knew I wouldn’t see them again until the halfway point, so I smiled, waved and kept going, counting down the miles.

Each time I passed a mile-marker, I was more motivated to find the next one. But as much as I loved watching the numbers grow, I looked forward to the water stations the most. (The water stations were set up every two miles along the course.) I gulped a cup of water or All Sport at each one. The urge to hug the volunteers handing me the fabulous liquids grew stronger with each station.

I reached mile 13.1 faster than I expected to. My breathing was normal. My pace was steady. And I only had half the original distance ahead of me. The race was going better than I could have ever imagined. Even if I took a little longer to run the second half, I’d still finish in my goal of four hours and thirty minutes. I’d even be able to sprint the final stretch like I had always dreamed of doing.

For an added boost of confidence, I spotted my parents in the crowd and waved. They waved back, and I kept running with only 13.1 miles to go.

What I didn’t know was that the real challenges were about to begin.

At mile 15, my feet started complaining. Then both my knees started to hurt. My muscles didn’t want to be left out and started doing some complaining of their own.

I was sore. I was tired. I was ready to quit. Especially when I didn’t see the mile-marker for mile 16 where I thought it was supposed to be. I figured my pace had gotten super duper slow and that I would never be able to make it to the finish line. Until I finally saw the marker for mile 17. (I somehow missed the 16 mark altogether.)

I was so happy to see the number 17 on that sign that tears of joy filled my eyes. I was making progress after all. Slowly and painfully, I was making progress.

The pain, torture and agony stuck with me throughout the next six miles. Up hills. Down hills. Around curves. Through grass. I was starting to believe that even if that finish line did really exist, I was now running way to slow to ever find it.

And sprinting the final stretch? What a fantasy. I was going to be thrilled just to be able to cross the finish line on my hands and knees.

Suddenly, 23 appeared on a sign beside the road. The war between my muscles to decide what part of me hurt the most quieted knowing I only had three miles left.

Then two.

Then one.

I was almost done.

More people lined the streets the closer I got to the finish line. They clapped and yelled and cheered. They still thought I was a runner. Maybe they were right. Maybe I’d prove it.

As I closed in on the finish, my feet and knees and muscles banded together for one last burst. I passed other weary runners.

The crowd noticed.

They called out my number.

I sprinted faster.

The finish came in to view.

A few more yards.

A few more feet.

Done.

I was done.

I finished a marathon.

It took me four hours and thirty-one minutes, but I was done. I just made a dream I once believed impossible come true because I kept going even though I was scared, doubted myself and just plain hurt the last half of the race.

When it comes to living your dreams “on the field” or off, you simply need to keep going. That’s how you reveal the CHAMPION in you.

To your sports dreams,
Bonnie Jean

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Feb 23

Hey Writers:

Last week we talked about making your characters seem as real as possible.  I explained that one way to do that is to give them a past by writing some super short stories about things that have happened to your characters before the story starts.  These aren’t stories anyone will read; they’re stories to write so YOU get to know your characters better.

The better you know your characters, the more real they’ll seem in your story.

Which is why today we’ll talk about another way to make your characters seem more real:  give them a future.  In other words, set some goals for your characters.

Here are five goal-setting ideas to get you started:

1. What is your character’s BIG DREAM?  Why?

2. Who is someone your character would like to meet?  Why?

3. What is one thing your character wants to do that she’s never done before?  Why?

4. Where is a place your character would like to visit?  Why?

5. What is one thing your character would like to have?  Why?

The more you know about what she wants and why, the more real she will seem in the main story you want to tell.

It’s ACTION time. Go write something about your character’s future.  (While you’re at it, answer those five questions about yourself, too!)

To your writing dreams,
Bonnie Jean

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Feb 22

You know you’re a Dream Doer if you imagine great things and take action to make those things happen.

If you’re a strong Dreamer, imagining those great things is easy for you. You love to imagine who you can be. What you can do. Where you can go.

In the imagination of a Dreamer, anything is possible.

But fear makes it tough to live your dreams. Fear of the unknown. Fear of failure. Fear of success.

As long as you let that fear stop you and prevent you from becoming all that God put you on earth to become, you’ll remain just a Dreamer and never become an unshakable, unbreakable, unstoppable champion Dream Doer.

When you choose to be satisfied with who you are and just dream about the things that are possible, you’ll never find a way to do what you dream.

Maybe, however, you’re a strong Doer. For you, taking action is easy. You’re always on the go and doing something. You are constantly busy.

But you may not always be busy doing something productive because of distractions. Lack of focus. No concentration.

Because even though you do things, you don’t really get anywhere. You just move from one thing to the next without planning or stopping to really dream of the possibilities life has to offer.

So Dreamers dream but get nothing done.

Doers do but get nowhere.

But a Dream Doer? Now you’re talking success.

A Dream Doer has the courage to imagine great things AND take action.

A Dream Doer makes the most out of life. A Dream Doer sees what she wants, believes she can get it and takes action to achieve her dreams.

A Dream Doer is a Champion.

So what about you? Are you a Dreamer? A Doer? Or a Champion Dream Doer?

To your dreams,
Bonnie Jean

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