Feb 22

You know you’re a Dream Doer if you imagine great things and take action to make those things happen.

If you’re a strong Dreamer, imagining those great things is easy for you. You love to imagine who you can be. What you can do. Where you can go.

In the imagination of a Dreamer, anything is possible.

But fear makes it tough to live your dreams. Fear of the unknown. Fear of failure. Fear of success.

As long as you let that fear stop you and prevent you from becoming all that God put you on earth to become, you’ll remain just a Dreamer and never become an unshakable, unbreakable, unstoppable champion Dream Doer.

When you choose to be satisfied with who you are and just dream about the things that are possible, you’ll never find a way to do what you dream.

Maybe, however, you’re a strong Doer. For you, taking action is easy. You’re always on the go and doing something. You are constantly busy.

But you may not always be busy doing something productive because of distractions. Lack of focus. No concentration.

Because even though you do things, you don’t really get anywhere. You just move from one thing to the next without planning or stopping to really dream of the possibilities life has to offer.

So Dreamers dream but get nothing done.

Doers do but get nowhere.

But a Dream Doer? Now you’re talking success.

A Dream Doer has the courage to imagine great things AND take action.

A Dream Doer makes the most out of life. A Dream Doer sees what she wants, believes she can get it and takes action to achieve her dreams.

A Dream Doer is a Champion.

So what about you? Are you a Dreamer? A Doer? Or a Champion Dream Doer?

To your dreams,
Bonnie Jean

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Aug 14

**The Dream*Featuring audio book Chapter 24 of The Dream Doers and the Summer of Secrets, a YA Novel about best friends Alex and Tyler who must battle bullies, face their fears and keep strange secrets the summer they learn to DO what they DREAM.***

(Note:  Only Dream Doer League members can hear the audio chapters of this Amazon bestselling young adult novel, but joining is completely, totally, 100% FREE!  Just fill out the short form on the right or click here to sign up.)

 

Alex has been working all summer for the chance to play in a tennis tournament.  In chapter 24, she finally gets that chance.

But she doesn’t just want to play; she wants to WIN.  She wants to be the one who wins the most games in each set, and the most sets in each match.

At the end of the tournament, she wants to be the one who is the CHAMPION.  The first place player.  The one who gets to meet her tennis hero, Margaret Colle.

Once she starts playing, though, she realizes how tough winning is going to be.  As she loses game after game in the first set, she’s going to have to dig deep to find a way to win.

The good news is that you can always find a way to win, even if you’re the underdog like Alex.  The tricky part is that you first have to understand exactly what winning is.

In sports, winning is not just about the score at the end of the game.  I used to think it was, though.  I used to think the only way to be a champion was to win every game or match or sport I played.

What about you?  What do you think about when you hear the word “champion?”

The athlete in me sees an Olympic gold medalist.  Or the winners of the World Series.  Or a state championship team.

In other words, the athlete in me sees a person or team who is better than everyone else they compete against.  But when I started running marathons, I realized there was more to winning that just the score (or how fast I could run).

You see, I am not a fast runner.  With my super slow Schaefer speed, I knew I had zero chance of being the first person to cross the finish line in my marathon race.  So I wasn’t sure I should even run the race.  Why would I want to compete in something where I had NO chance of winning?

Then I realized winning wasn’t about being first.  Winning was about doing my best.  As long as I finished that marathon, I would win.  I would win because 26.2 miles was a longer distance than I had ever run before.  And like Alex and her tennis tournament, it was always something I wanted to do.

I got to decide what winning meant for me.  I didn’t have the talent or ability to be first, but I did have the ability to finish that long, challenging distance.  Now I’ve finished FOUR marathons, and I ‘won’ every one because I did my best each time.

In other words, a unshakable, unbreakable, unstoppable champion Dream Doer is someone who pursues their dreams based on their own talents and abilities.  A Champion Dream Doer understands that being a winner is about being your best.

Besides, when you think that winning is just about the score, it’s easy to think that you have to do whatever it takes to win, even if that means you have to cheat or hurt others.

If you play sports that way (like Zach does), you’ll behave that way in other things, too…like cheating in school to get the best grade.  Or gossiping about a classmate to make yourself look better.

Champion Dream Doers, however, would rather lose than compromise their integrity by cheating or hurting someone else.  Because they know that being the best they can be is what winning is all about.

And when you always give your best, you always find a way to win.

Then no matter what challenges come your way, you have the confidence you need to overcome those challenges.

Tomorrow, Tyler and Alex will have to face some tough challenges of their own.  Will they be able to overcome them?

Until then, enjoy the story!

To your dreams,

Bonnie Jean 

P.S.  Don’t risk missing a day of the Dream Doer Crash Course or a chapter of The Dream Doers and the Summer of SecretsJoin the Dream Doer League now to get every crash course lesson emailed to you along with the members only link to the audio chapters.

P.S.S.  What about you?  When have you found a way to win?  Join the conversation by leaving a comment below! 

Aug 03

**The Dream*Featuring audio book Chapters 1-3 of The Dream Doers and the Summer of Secrets, a YA Novel about best friends Alex and Tyler who must battle bullies, face their fears and keep strange secrets the summer they learn to DO what they DREAM.***

(Note:  Only Dream Doer League members can hear the audio chapters of this Amazon bestselling young adult novel, but joining is completely, totally, 100% FREE!  Just fill out the short form on the right or click here to sign up.)

 

Let your Dream Doer Crash Course begin!

It starts with one simple question:  are you a more of a Dreamer like Alex or a Doer like Tyler?

Are you more of a Dreamer like Alex or a Doer like Tyler? 

Let me explain. 

You see, Alex is a Dreamer.  Her big dream is to be a great tennis player and win a gold medal in the Olympics.

 She loves to dream about her dream.  She often imagines herself playing tennis and winning every time. 

 But she’s scared to tell anyone about her dream.  She thinks it will sound silly if she says it out loud.  Not even Tyler, her best friend since the first day of kindergarten, knows about her dream (until the end of chapter 2, anyway!).

She loves learning things through reading.  But she would rather read and dream about what could be possible than do anything about her dreams. 

She’s the youngest of six kids and wants to be bold, brave and strong.  Only she feels too timid and scared to take any kind of courageous action.

That’s why she feels frustrated with herself.  Who she wants to be and how she acts don’t really match.  She doesn’t know how to make what she sees in her mind become real in her life.

Tyler, on the other hand, is a Doer.  His big dream is to pitch for the Chicago Cubs. 

He tells everybody about his dream, and his room has more Cubs stuff than the shops at Wrigley Field.  He already considers himself a Cub; the only thing holding him back is his age.

He loves learning new things through experience.  That’s why he’s always doing something and enjoys playing sports, especially baseball. 

But he’s usually so busy taking action that he doesn’t think things through.  And because he doesn’t consider the consequences of his actions, he often gets himself and Alex into a lot of trouble.  Or he’s so busy being busy that he never really accomplishes anything.

He also gets distracted easily (like in the beginning of chapter 2).  And it’s awfully hard to be a great pitcher when you have trouble focusing!

He’s the oldest of three of three kids and likes to be in charge. 

He’s also super-competitive and wants to win whether he’s playing sports or fighting with Zach.

Personally, I’m more like Alex.  Only my big dream is to be a best-selling author (which I made happen last year!).  Still, I was too scared to start doing something about my dreams until I was 21. 

(Then it took me 10 more years to figure out how to be an unshakable, unbreakable, unstoppable Dream Doer…I created the Dream Doer League so you don’t have to wait as long as I did to live your dreams!)

But I remember the exact day I learned about the difference between dreamers and doers.  And that’s the same day I learned that anything is possible when you become a DREAM DOER.  I’ll tell you more about that tomorrow.

To your dreams,

Bonnie Jean

P.S.  Don’t risk missing a day of the Dream Doer Crash Course or a chapter of The Dream Doers and the Summer of SecretsJoin the Dream Doer League now to get every crash course lesson emailed to you along with the members only link to the audio chapters.

P.S.S.  What about you?  Are you more of a Dreamer or a Doer?  Join the conversation by leaving a comment below.

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